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A BLOG FROM KELCEYS MUM........
Update on Kelcey Roberts #1 (19 December 2009)
This is the first update on my daughter Kelcey and her journey through her cancer treatment. I have resisted setting up an email update system as I did it with my breast cancer treatment experience in 2007 and I thought our family had ticked that box and that we were getting on with our lives. But we’re here again. Only this time it’s Kelcey and her treatment is going to make mine look like a walk in the park. It is every parent’s worst nightmare. It’s unfair and we can’t believe it’s happening to our daughter. She can’t believe it either. Prior to Thursday 3 December, she was a busy, happy, ‘healthy’ 9 year old who had just got back from a family holiday in Fiji. Five weeks prior, I had taken her to the GP with one swollen gland on the side of her neck. As she was well, he said to come back if more appeared or if she became unwell. Regardless, I was to return to the doctors 6 weeks later if it hadn’t disappeared.
On the 3rd of December, I was taking her and Maclain to swimming lessons and I asked her if the gland was still swollen. She told me that morning she had noticed she had more of them. I wasn’t alarmed, she still did her 45 minute swimming lesson and then her and Maclain went on the hydro-slide. We then went to the Accident and Emergency Clinic at the local hospital. They did a blood test for glandular fever and then a chest x-ray. That showed a large mass of swollen lymph nodes in her chest. We were told to go the Starship Children’s Hospital and by Friday afternoon we were in the Paediatric Oncology Ward. Unbelievable. She has been diagnosed with T-cell Acute Lymphoblastic Leukaemia. The first week in hospital was awful, because of the mass on her chest she wasn’t allowed a central line so she had lots of iv lines and blood tests. Lots of needles, lots of oral meds, lots of general anaesthetics for lumbar punctures and bone marrow aspirates. She has had two nasal gastric tubes put in because she stopped eating and drinking and we were having difficulty getting her oral meds into her. But the nasal gastric tube felt so awful for her that she stopped speaking and communicating and had a horrible ‘dead’ look in her eyes. It was heartbreaking. She had to cope with going into hospital feeling well and becoming very unwell from the procedures and treatments. Hard stuff for a 9 year old to understand. Chemo started on the Monday and is being repeated weekly. She will lose her hair soon.
We are currently in the ‘Induction’ phase of her treatment. There are still lots of question marks over exactly what type of cancer we are dealing with. Each week we get more information. Kelvin and I are struggling to cope with all the information but are supporting each other and Kelcey and Maclain the best we can. They are our priority. As we are getting in excess of 50 messages a day, it is honestly impossible for us to contact you all and update you. We are full on with both our kids. There is no down time and we are not happy to have anyone else look after Kelcey at this stage other than the two of us. She doesn’t want anyone else. We came home on the 16th of December and although she is still vomiting a lot and feeling very unwell, I think it is a better environment for her. We will spend lots of time in hospital over the next few months. Although the treatment plan is not confirmed yet we are looking at two years plus regardless. I have resigned from work and will not work again until Kelcey is back at school. Kelvin is not working at the moment either, the Police have been awesome. I’m lucky to be a school teacher so home schooling isn’t daunting at all. Kelcey is a bright little girl and we will have lots of support from the correspondence school system until she is able to go back to school.
Updates: I will send them when I’m able. No need to reply to the updates, we honestly ‘feel the love’. The support we have received has been incredible. I know it’s frustrating for many of you who want to help and don’t know how. In my next update I will think creatively of what we need. I’m not proud this time, I’ll be honest and ask for help. We need all the support we can get. Can you please update my contact details too. I will update you all next week. Thanks for all the messages, I’ve read/listened to them all. A big thanks to all the fab people who have dropped off meals and everyone who has given Kelcey gifts and cards. Tracey
Update on Kelcey Roberts #2 (27 December 2009)
Hi everyone, hope you all had a great Christmas. We are still at home. Kelcey is definitely more comfortable and able to have more options at home. She is still extremely tired and still has bouts of nausea. She lost nearly 4 kg in hospital and we’re trying to get her to put that weight back on. Today she is having lots of back pain. She spends most of her time sitting on the couch or lying on her bed. She is not able to walk far and isn’t up to leaving the house for anything non essential. She hasn’t been keen for visitors and is still feeling very unhappy about being sick. She wants to know why this is happening to her and just wants to get back to having a normal life. I asked her what she misses the most. It is school, dancing and her friends and just being normal.
She had her third lot of chemo on Monday 21st of December along with a general anaesthetic for another bone marrow aspirate. We got the results back on Thursday and they are looking good. In healthy adults, bone marrow contains less than 5% of blast cells. When Kelcey first went into hospital, tests showed her levels of blast cells were at 30% in her bone marrow. The chemo has reduced that to under 5% at this stage. You are probably thinking ‘great’, all fixed. If only it were that easy. She has to have two more lots of chemo (next one on Tuesday 29th of December) and they hope the % will get lower still. That will be the end of the remission induction phase of her treatment. She will then need more treatment to help destroy any left over disease in her body. This is important because it helps to prevent the disease from relapsing or spreading. This second phase of treatment is called consolidation therapy. We will find out more about what it involves soon. We are taking one step at a time.
In my first update (which is below) I spoke about how people can help us. This is difficult for us to do. I like to think of our family as fairly self sufficient and to admit we are in need of support is not easy. But we are under pressure and due to the long-term degree of change in our lives, we will need help to get through it in the best possible shape. Below are some ways that those of you who are able could help out. No pressure to do anything, especially if you have already!! We have lots of support, Kelvin and I know a lot of people which in tough times is reassuring and comforting. There is a recession on AND you’re in the expensive busy holiday season so don’t do anything unless you’re totally able, please. Otherwise, I won’t sleep at night!!!!! Kelcey has incredibly received a lap top and the latest iPod technology so she is covered on the computer/music/gaming/dvd side of things. We have access to friends DVD’s and am borrowing lots of CD’s to download onto the iPod.
Meals: Cooking meals takes time and often the evenings are chaotic. Kelcey is really fussy but any meals for Kelvin and I would be super helpful. Meals that can be frozen are best. We eat anything!
Random stuff: There are different products we will be using lots of: hand sanitizer, cleaning products, natural moisturisers for Kelcey (she loves foot and hand massages).
Prayers: For those of you with direct lines to JC, we would appreciate any prayers. Specifically, if people could pray for the treatment to work and for Kelcey to be brave about taking meds and looking forward to positive things happening in the future.
Letters and emails: Kelcey loves receiving emails and letters.
Petrol vouchers: As we will be going back and forth to the hospital a lot in the future, petrol vouchers are worth their weight in gold.
Stationary vouchers: Kelcey got a digital camera from family for Christmas. She did an enrichment digital photography programme at school in Term 3 and loved it. I am hoping to ‘encourage’ her into the visual arts while she is at home during the coming year. Vouchers for somewhere like Warehouse Stationary would be used to get supplies to print off photo’s and maybe do some scrapbooking.
Entertainment for Maclain!! I should have put this TOP of the list. It’s the holidays and we have a six year old who starts each day with ‘What are we doing today?’ Obviously all our holiday plans are not happening. Keeping him home every day is not ideal. It would be awesome if anyone who already has a connection with our son would be able to take him out for a few hours. You don’t need to do anything flash or expensive with him. He just loves playing with other kids, playgrounds, swimming etc.
Charities: For those of you here and overseas, if you have the opportunity to donate to any Child Cancer organisation, do it. The local Child Cancer Society have been really supportive. They offer a fantastic service to the whole family. In NZ around 40 children are diagnosed with Leukaemia each year. That’s 40 families who are going through what we are.
Kelvin and I are hanging in there. It’s going to be a hard slog. I’m tired just thinking about it but the smiles from our daughter we get (albeit infrequent) are motivating and raise our spirits. She got Tyra Banks autograph and was thrilled (I almost wet myself! TYRA!!!). She is blown away by the generosity of people. We are too. Kelvin’s brother Lance wants to have a ‘Shave-off’ event early next year. I am not sure of the details but will let you know more in the future.
Happy New Year to you all. Here’s hoping that 2010 will help us get closer to our wish. No prizes for guessing what it is!
Update on Kelcey Roberts #3 (5 January 2010)
Hi everyone, happy new year. Shortish update this time and it’s good you received it ,as Telecom have identified me as a possible spammer and as a result quite a few of you haven’t received the previous two updates.... I’ve had to break the email group into two and have applied to xtra/yahoo to plead for non-spammer status... FRUSTRATING!!!. Anyway, Kelcey is still at home. We were at the hospital for our clinic visit all day today. Today clinic consisted of a blood test, then a meeting with the oncologist. That was followed with a general anaesthetic for a lumbar puncture, bone marrow aspirate and chemo directly into the spinal column, no IV chemo today, which was good. Got there at 11am and left at 4.45pm so it was a long day. She was also on nil by mouth from 7.30am and no water from 11am till 4pm which is a right pain in the ass when you’re as skinny as Kelcey. She was STARVING all day, poor thing.
Clinic is an interesting place. There are lots of children and teenagers at various stages of cancer treatment. It’s an affirming place for Kelcey, she takes it all in and watches the other kids. She notices lots and comments on different kids for days after. We are getting to know lots of the families as now the holidays are over our regular clinic day will be Monday. Her weight got down to 24kg last week but has come back up to 25.3 thanks to Kelvin’s special meatballs and mashed potatoes. Unfortunately tonight she managed to vomit up her entire dinner but fingers crossed we manage to get some more weight on her this week.
Her hair is almost gone which is extremely upsetting for her.
On a positive note we are adopting two kittens on Thursday. Hmmmm, yes we are doing this for the emotional gains for Kelcey, certainly not for the extra duties involved in kitten rearing. She is very, very excited and as it will probably coincide with the total loss of her hair -I think the kittens will be worth their weight in kitty litter. The next update will be an important one as we will find out what direction her treatment will be taking. She will receive a ‘risk’ rating which scares the cr*p out of Kelvin and I – low, medium or high risk. Obviously the survival rates that are attached to this and the intensity of the treatment will have a huge effect in more ways than we can imagine. Big breath..... We want to thank everyone who is supporting us. We are so grateful. We will update you when we have more news.
Update on Kelcey Roberts #4 (19 January 2010)
We are still waiting on one result but I thought I would let you all know that everything is going OK and Kelcey is definitely a lot happier. She is slowly putting weight back on (up to 26 kg now – she was originally 29kg). At the moment she is neutropenic. This means her white blood cell count is really low, she’s not sick as a result but it does mean that she has very little immunity. We have therefore put up the ‘No visitors’ sign on the door. It is a precaution for Kelcey because if she got sick the potential for her to get really sick, really quickly is huge. We don’t want to take chances so it’s easier to say no visitors, that way we’re not having to ‘screen’ people. Neutropenia is pretty much a given at this stage in her treatment. Yesterday we were at the hospital all day and her red blood cell count was too low so she had her first blood transfusion as well as another general anaesthetic, lumbar puncture and intrathecal chemo (into the spinal column). For the next three days the District Nurse will visit us at home and she will have daily subcutaneous chemo (injection in her thigh). She is also taking oral medication. So as you can see, it’s a veritable cocktail of drugs administered in a variety of ways: oral; intravenous (vein); intrathecal (spine); intramuscular (muscle in her leg); subcutaneous (injection in leg). This will continue for months. Her hair has completely gone, she has a wig but isn’t wearing it much. She has lots of cool hats. The kittens we got are AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They were a great success and I’m so glad we got them. Again we want to say a big thank you to all the great people who have been supporting us. Kelcey and Maclain want to say a special thanks to their ‘special friend’..... (you know who you are!) and thanks to Jeremy who gave blood on Kelcey’s behalf. Which brings me to my final request: please give BLOOD if you are able. Oncology kids use lots of blood products so dust off those veins and donate!! (Auckland’s call Ph 5235733 to check for location and eligibility). We will send out another update next week.
A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM KELCEY TO ALL THE CONTESTANTS (AND SPONSORS)-22JANUARY.
Hi everyone from Kelcey. Keep losing weight. I am not trying to lose weight. I am doing the opposite!! It's true. Here are some things you could try: do a run in the mornings and eat healthy food like vegetables and fruit and protein shakes and good museli bars that make you lose weight. Eat Special K for breakfast and put lots of fruit in your breakfast. Banana on toast is good. Make juice, with beetroot, broccoli sprouts, carrot, strawberries, blueberries and apple. Do aerobics and work your abs!!!! Good luck and bye from Kelcey
PS Big thanks to you all from Tracey too!! Outstanding results for the first week guys
Update on Kelcey Roberts #5 (26 January 2010)
Hi everyone, we got the test result back and it showed no blasts in the bone marrow which is great news. (Medical explanation: Acute lymphoblastic leukaemia (ALL) is a fast-growing cancer of the white blood cells. Lymphocytes are a type of white blood cell that the body uses to fight infections. In ALL, the bone marrow makes lots of unformed cells called blasts that normally would develop into lymphocytes. However, the blasts are abnormal. They do not develop and cannot fight infections. The number of abnormal cells (or leukaemia cells) grows quickly. They crowd out the normal red blood cells, white blood cells and platelets the body needs. End of medical explanation!!). This test result means that Kelcey responded well to the induction phase of her treatment and that the treatment has put her into remission. The challenge now is to keep her in remission. When we got the bone marrow result back we thought that sounded freaking fantastic but our Oncologist is a cautious, non-excitable individual. He reminded us that she has T-cell ALL and that it is early in her treatment. Things can change quickly but Kelvin and I are really pleased with how things have gone to date. The treatment remains intensive but Kelcey is adjusting to her ‘new life’. Taking oral medication is getting easier (some easier than others). The chemo is still tough on her and yesterday she had two intramuscular chemo injections into her thigh. Awful things, one nurse on each leg injecting at the same time. She is very tired and a bit nauseous today. As expected, the chemo is destroying lots of good cells aswell as bad cells so her blood levels are really low, for those of you up for more medical detail: platelets (48), neutrophils (0.13 – so she basically has no immunity), white blood cells (0.42) and haemoglobin at 86. I asked about school and it is probable that she won’t return to school until August at the earliest. This is really frustrating for Kelcey as she LOVES school and will be in Room 17 with the awesome Mrs Bartlett. Ironically Maclain would like to quit school now and join the workforce, typical. So next week we will start correspondence school and I will work in with her teacher at Oratia School to keep up with what her class is doing. Emotionally Kelcey is happier and accepting of what is happening. She’s doing incredibly well, I know many adults who would find it hard to cope with this treatment regime. Two days in hospital next week so I’ll report back after that. Cheers everyone. Good luck to all the kids starting back at school next week.
Update on Kelcey Roberts #6 (1 February 2010)
Kelcey is back in Starship Hospital with high temperatures and extremely low blood counts. She felt unwell all day Saturday and eventually starting vomiting and her temperature went up into the 38 degrees. So we were admitted about 10pm and she will stay there until her temperatures have been normal for at least 24 hours. They are treating it aggressively with antibiotics and are awaiting the lab results to see what sort of infection it is. It could end up being viral but they treat it with antibiotics to be safe. Her blood counts are also bottoming out so it may be an extended stay, it’s assessed daily. She had two blood transfusions yesterday and is tired with no appetite. So, no visitors at the hospital please. We need to keep her isolated and get her well. Kelvin and I will continue to spend alternate nights at the hospital. The rooms all have a comfortable pull down bed for one parent and Kelcey has her own bathroom and a lovely view of the Sky Tower (not that she cares!!). The oncology ward at Starship Hospital was recently refurbished and it is lovely. All children have their own rooms, in each room there is a plasma flat screen tv with all the kids’s sky tv channels (Kelvin was disappointed that the sports channels weren’t included....) and a PS3. There is a parents kitchen, dining room and even a teen lounge for the older kids. The kids tend to stay in their rooms as they are too unwell to socialise but the parents get to know each other in the kitchen, which is good. Anyway, I will update you all when she is home from the hospital.
Update on Kelcey Roberts #7 (5 February 2010)
Kelcey came home from hospital last night. Her temperature finally stabilised on Wednesday after three different types of antibiotics were used. One of them gave her an all over itchy body rash and swollen lips which was scary but they adjusted how it was given and she was ok. We are continuing at home with IV antibiotics administered by a community district nurse daily and have three hospital visits scheduled for next week. Kelcey stopped eating again for the first four days in hospital so we are back to getting her weight up again. She is severely neutropenic now which means she has virtually no immunity and has a substantially increased risk of serious infection. So we are home and continuing with total isolation and no visitors at all other than Kelvin, Maclain and myself. Tough for Kelcey but she is happy to be home with her kittens and is doing lots of school work to keep her occupied!! Thanks for all the best wishes, she will end up in hospital again sooner or later as it goes with the territory, but we’re glad to be home.
Message from Kelcey to all the losers (18 February 2010)
Wazzap guys, I'm doing great. Yesterday I went to Radio NZ to record an advert for the Child Cancer Foundation. I will attach it to this email so you can listen to it. Last Thursday I had a portocath put in and I felt so sick and sore that I didn't really eat for 4 days but I need to gain weight not lose it. And you all need to lose not gain weight. Funny that it's opposites. Are you losing lots of weight? Remember to exercise every morning and eat healthy. Good luck and keep your cool and lose some more weight. Great job and bye from Kelcey
(audio is on this page)
Update on Kelcey Roberts #8 (20 February 2010)
Hi everyone, I have attached a radio advertisement that Kelcey recorded last week at Radio NZ for the Child Cancer Appeal next month (8th – 14th March). Kelcey and Kavahn (cute 6 year old boy with leukaemia) recorded a few different versions so you may hear one of them on the Radio NZ Network (ZM, Hauraki, 1ZB etc). It was an exciting day for Kelcey as her and Kavahn got to go into a recording studio then look around the ZM radio station. They got lots of freebies and everyone made a fuss of them. Following the radio experience she went to hospital for her clinic visit and her blood counts were up so we are trying to do lots while her immunity and energy levels are OK. We popped into her lyrical dance class and she joined in for 10 minutes which she loved. She wasn’t really able to dance properly as she has lost most of her muscle strength and is still very frail. She’d also had a port-o-cath put in the week before (11/2/10). That was a nightmare. We were told to be at the hospital at 7.30am and she was on nil by mouth. She was on the acute list (which I have renamed the crap list) and was unable to eat or drink anything all day. She didn’t get into theatre until 3.45pm which was horrendous. She was so weak and upset by that stage. The surgery to remove the PICC line (port coming out of her arm) and to insert the port-o-cath (port which sits under the skin on her chest and will be used for administering the iv drugs for the next 2 years) took 2 hours and we weren’t allowed home until 9.30pm. Huge day and she felt really unwell and sore. We got home at 10pm and had to be back at the hospital the next morning at 7.30am for all day chemo. It was brutal, she basically felt sore and sick for the next few days. She couldn’t eat and was vomiting a lot so her weight dropped back down to 24 kgs. Not good. Luckily her little body is recovering and her blood counts are OK at the moment so we are busy doing ‘normalish’ stuff while we can. She is still having daily chemo injections and oral chemo drugs and more IV chemo next week so these energy levels won’t last too long. She did get to go to Waiheke Island on Thursday with the Child Cancer Foundation and Camp Quality and Kelcey and 8 other children with cancer were presented with a new bike each. Her bike was blue and green and Kelcey decided to give it to Maclain which is super cool of her. So it’s been a fortnight of feeling awful and great for Kelcey. She has a friend over at the moment and I’m hearing them talking rubbish and giggling their heads off.... so life is good!!
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